Life Coaching Journey

Some of you know, but not all of you that I am about to embark on a new journey. I am going to be going through a program called Mindset for Success. It is a journey that I am so pumped up for and totally excited about. I have been through The Road Adventure, Celebrate Recovery and Tres Dias and I know now God has been preparing me this whole time for this journey right here...right now.

He keeps confirming to me every day that this is the path I am supposed to be on. I love when God does that!! Over my life I can see how God's hand has been there to orchrastrate each step I have taken and it blows my mind. I just can't express to you how much God has been showing me the last couple of months how I need to do this, that he again is going to be pruning and shaping me and I welcome it with open arms.

I have this desire in my heart to help people, to show that God can take something that was meant for evil and make it good, to encourage those around me to a closer walk with God and to become more self aware. I have this deep seeded need to reach out and make a difference in people's lives. To show people they too can walk in freedom.

So, this is where the life coaching program comes into play with me. In order to be a good life coach...I first need to continue to work on myself so that one day I can be the best Life Coach I can possibly be for others. I begin my journey this month and look so forward to the work it is going to take, the changes that need to be made in my life and the joy and freedom I will again experience as God pulls another layer back off my life. I love the process of pruning....I know some of it will be painful, but I also know that if I work hard it will all be worth it in the end.

At first when I told Brian that I really wanted to do this, he was like not something else that is going to take your time and energy, but over the last couple of weeks he has come to realize that this is what I am supposed to be doing, that this is my calling. I love him for being open to what God is telling him and how supportive he is in this process. He did say he wants me to give it my 100% and that is just what I am going to do.

Of course there are going to be some sacrafices in this whole process. I am going to have to give up some of the areas I am serving in so that I can devote the time and energy to do this well. I know that will disappoint some, but I also know that God will work that all out too.

So, off to my new journey and I will keep you posted as to what God is revealing to me during this process. Pray for balance, that I will be subjective about myself and that God will shape me into the person He wants me to be.

Chhhhaaa...changes.

This month is going to be full of changes. I love change actually...but the rest of my family hates change, so I pray that it all goes smoothly. On Friday this week, we pack up and move Heather to Lubbock to go to Texas Tech for graduate school. She is going for Family and Marriage Counseling. I am so proud of her I can not express it in words. She is such a bright, studious and lovely woman!! As a mother I just look at her and she inspires me. Heather has never liked change very well, she has never been this far from home. She is excited and I am excited for her, but I am also sad that I won't hear her giggle around the house anymore. She has one of those giggles that comes from her toes up...it is one of my favorite sounds. She is going to be living in her own apartment and of course the mom in me is a little scared about all the things that can go wrong, but I also know God is Large and IN CHARGE. So I am just going to give that over to HIM. Mel is so going to miss her big sister too. They have a very strong bond and I can honestly say my kids just genuine love each other and love being around each other.

Now, next week our son Chris moves back in with us...so he is moving into Heather's old room. This should be so much fun. He is moving back in to pay off school loans and finish his externship at a dental office for he is now a dental assistant. I am so proud of him as well....Chris has dyslexia and ADD so, school has never been his strong suit, but he is doing amazingly well. Of course he doesn't do change either so there will be adjustments after he has lived on his own so long to come back home. But he did call me last week and said he is ready for it. He even said he would love to go to church with us and this set my heart ablaze!! I am so excited!!! So, Mel will not be alone she will have her big brother here.

I have to say I love God so much for all He has done for me and my family. You see my Heather and Chris moved out before Brian and I got healthy through Celebrate Recovery, The Road and Tres Dias. So, they only remember us being not so great parents, but now God has been orchrestrating them coming back home to see how a healthy, loving and caring home can be. I am so grateful for the second chance to show my kids how God has changed me and can change them. I love it!!! It overwhelms me, to think of God's grace He poured out on our family. Thank you God!!!

Mel had such a wonderful experience at Youth Camp last week, that the changes in her are totally incredible. She wants to go to church, she wants to go to youth and she loves God so very much. She even expressed to Heather how God's grace works...now this is a miracle to us. Sunday she sat with all the youth and Brian and I watched as she worshipped our Lord with hands raised and heart abandoned...it totally made our day. We both cried. We have even noticed there is a lot less anger in her and she is smiling and laughing all the time. I love it so much!!! God is so faithful!!! Honestly, her going to youth camp and having a great time is a prayer that God answered for us and we will grateful forever for it.

This month we start our Tres Dias meetings for the next Tres Dias in October...it is a ton of work, but so well worth it when we see the lives changed at the end of it. I love being part of this ministry and being able to be God's vessel for the women that go through that weekend experience. There are a lot of trips to Houston during the next 2 months so I pray for safety and for unity in the team and their families. Of course Satan would love nothing better than to cause division in both of these areas. I have a couple of friends going through this next Tres Dias and I am so excited for them to see the power and love of God for each of them!!!

I have started on the Community Group Leadership Team and TCAL and it is exciting to see the direction it will be going. I love community groups, I am passionate about them...I think every single person needs to be in one, lead one or host one. I have made friendships that will last my lifetime because of community groups. I can't imagine my life without those people in it. So, if you attend TCAL join a community group. If you feel led to lead a group....Do it scared...you don't have to be a bible scholar...just be open for God to use you. If you wish to host...do it...we have such a hard time finding host homes. Sign up to be part of the rescue to others by being available for community groups.

There of course are other changes coming up, but I will post that later since this is now a novel. LOL.

Dreams.

Do you have dreams? Do you wish you could do something and it feels so out of touch? I have tons of dreams. I wanted to share a bunch of dreams I have with you today. Mostly this exercise is for me to really see what it is exactly I dream about. Some of them may seem small, silly or totally outrageous but hey, they are my dreams. What else do you expect? If money or time was no obstacle these are some of the things I would love to accomplish.

Dreams
To see all my children come to Christ.
To go on a mission trip to Africa or India.
To be on the Women of Faith speaking team. (told ya a big one)
Become a Life Coach.
To run a marathon.
To write a book titled "Darn, I am not going to win the Mother of the Year Award"
Go scuba diving in the Great Barrier Reef.
Go to Israel....sp?
Sew a quilt.
Skydive.
Memorize at lease 100 verses of the bible.
Learn a foreign language.
Break a Guiness World Record for something funny.
Read 100 books in a years time.
See an angel.
Have a huge impact on someone's life.
Drag race a car.


Now, these are just some of them...when more come to me I am going to post them.

What are your dreams?

Picture of new hair.

I forgot to post a picture of my new hair....like duh.

New Pink Hair

Today, I went to get my hair colored pink for my support of my sweet friend Kelley who is going to be without hair tomorrow from Chemotherapy. I want her to know that I know how important her hair is to her and that I would go pink in order to show her my support. I wanted to go bald...but Brian veto'd that idea. :-( I actually love my new pink hair...brian said today he feels like he is married to a punk rocker. Melissa just said "man that is kick A mom" I am assuming that means she likes it. Chris said "wow mom you look cool". My sister said "you are so crazy, but I love it". Kelley said "it totally rocks!!!" So, I guess it is a hit....I may keep it awhile...I kinda like looking cool. Thanks Rhonda for doing my hair for my birthday present....it was a great birthday present!!!

Tomorrow I leave for International Tres Dias....I wonder what all my friends will say? They will love it!!!

Now, go check your Ta..Tas for Kelley!!!

Bye Bye Motorcyle...Hello Boat!!!

My hubby sold his motorcycle and bought a boat with his money. Today we took it on the water for the first time and we had a blast!!! We live so close to a lake that we have always wanted a boat and now we have one. Of course it is an older boat, but we don't care it runs and we were able to pull the Heather and Melissa on the tube.

The boat started to overheat so we had to pull it in, but Brian is sure he can figure out what is wrong. It was cheap enough if it only lasts us a couple of years we will be totally happy. I spent yesterday reupholstering the seats...I must say I didn't do to bad for my first try.

You should have seen how funny it was to watch me back up the trailer to the boat launch....it was hilarious. I obviously need to get the hang of that for sure. My family got a good laugh out of it..so I was glad to entertain them for awhile. Here are some pictures of our day.









I can't wait to go fishing!!! I love to fish, but I have never caught a fish. There is something about just being on the water in nature I just love. I am so excited about just being on the boat!! We are home now and totally exhausted, the sun sure takes it out of you. What a great weekend so far!!!

Wednesday Musings.

I just realized it has been awhile since my last blog. Where does the time go? This week is such a busy week, end of year stuff, graduation cake, and Community Group Summer Party. I need to pray that my time is expanded this week. Yikes.

I have been traing for the 3 day walk and it has been great. I am up to 7.5 miles and that is exciting. I can't wait for the actual event!! My donations are inching up there and I am blessed beyond measure.

School gets out this week and I better find stuff for Melissa to do or I will have to hear "I'm bored" every single minute of the day...LOL. I so remember being a teenager and saying that to my mom. My mom said I would hear those words and yes, she was right. So, I better get on the stick and figure out what to do with this 15 yo. She is going to do drivers ed, so that will take up a little time..tee hee. I think Mel is getting to the age where hanging out with mom just isn't that cool. I hate this part of teenage years.

Hey, on a great note...we tried one of those topsy turvy planters for tomatos and we have a tomato...it is still green, but hey it is working. You should see how Brian babies that plant it is so cute. God love him. We also have one for cucumbers and it has flowered but no cucumbers yet..LOL.

No pictures this week...I need to get some new family photos done, we haven't had any in years. I can already hear the moans of my family as I type this. But if I don't get them done before Heather goes to Lubbock in July who knows when the next time we are all together again will be. I wonder what colors we should wear...hmmm.